We are a poly/open couple seeking a female sub or switch for friendship and play.
We're not looking for a long-term secondary partner but we do want something kind of on-going - just more of a casual basis. Part of this is simply a lack of time available to devote to a full relationship.
About us:
He is a 32 year old Dominant who has been involved in BDSM for 6 years. His favourite toys are the violet wand and the cane, although more recently he has been exploring other types of play - heavy body play (punching, kicking etc) is one of his new interests.
She is his collared submissive and girlfriend. She is 19 years old and has been experimenting in BDSM for two and a half years. She has a little experience with other women and is looking to explore this more. While she primarily identifies as submissive, she is also somewhat curious about exploring her top side as well. She is playful (some might say bratty, but never in a mean way), chubby, and affectionate. Some of her favourite types of play (as a bottom) are force/resistance, heavy body play, and other types of thuddy pain. She is, however, flexible within her own limits and his restrictions.
We are both somewhat shy, quiet people. We enjoy going out to play parties and other kink events, but we also love spending quiet evenings together at home watching a favourite TV series (right now we're working on season one of True Blood and season three of Buffy) or a movie. We'd like to find someone who would like the same, and be able to enjoy time spent together even without play/sex.
You: are a female submissive or switch. Our preference would be under the age of 25 but that is not a hard rule; if we connect well, age would not be a deal breaker. You are interested in both men and women.
It is important to note that we are seeking a play partner for BOTH of us. While we acknowledge that we may not each connect with you in exactly the same way or at the same level as the other, we will not accept someone who is only in it to get with one of us.
If you are interested and/or have any questions for one (or both) of us, please feel free to send a message. If you send a photo we are willing to send one back.
- Location: Toronto
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